I…. is for ‘In Love’….

Posted on April 14, 2012


Love is complicated, messy, outrageous, wonderful, exhilarating and deflating at any given time, or all at the same time, depending on the people who are in it.

Or out of it. It can be really messy if you are in it (Love) and the other person is out of it…

It can be even messier, and possibly come with a side dish of jail if you are in it (Love) and they are out of it, and were never ever in it to begin with (Whooo Boy).

Goodness me, it is hard enough to navigate things when you both love each other, let alone trying to work it out when the critter you are in love with, doesn’t want anything to do with you.

I’ve been in the position one time, where I’ve told someone I loved them and I genuinely had no idea what was going to happen. I thought my worst fear was that they wouldn’t love me back. Turns out, thats not half as bad as loving someone who loves you, but also loves someone else. (0r says they love you, but also loves someone else.) – Intro Avant, ‘Lie about us’… *rolls eyes*

This is never a good look in love, because no matter what way you slice it, no one wins, like, ever.

If you were the side dish and thought you were the main, then you are devestated when you are completely pushed off the table.

If you were the main, thought you were main, have always known you were the main and then end up the main, knowing there was once a side dish, who quite possibly thought they were also the main, then you will always be wondering whether or not the side dish is sitting at the next table (even if they are a part of another persons meal already).

Love like that really hurts. It hurts because we don’t know where we fit, and as hard as we try not to, we are always wondering….

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